Showing posts with label orphans. Show all posts
Showing posts with label orphans. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Blind left hand turns

When I am in the United States I am blessed to go to an office that is very easy to get to.

That is except for the 2nd to last turn, it is in my opinion one of the hardest parts of my entire day - not because I'm not used to it, but because it takes experience and nerves of steel to navigate it safely.

Let me see if I can describe the turn:



  • It's a left hand turn
  • There is rarely (if ever) a turn arrow
  • Oncoming traffic does not stop
  • The oncoming traffic comes out of a dip in the road, I the traffic in my lane is pointed uphill and as you can imagine it is frequently difficult to see
  • The traffic moves at about 50 MPH (though many drivers go much faster)


While driving to work recently I was waiting for what I believed was the right moment to turn when I came to a realization that my drive to work was a metaphor for life (my life anyway).

God calls each one of us to do something for Him, somewhere.

  • There are times when the road is smooth - everything is going the way we expect it to.
  • There are other times when there are minor pot holes or detours - things don't always go the way that we expect them to, but we know that in a short (or long) period of time we will be back on course
  • There are times when we know where we are going and in order to get there we make a blind left hand turn

So the question was - how is it that every day I make a blind left hand turn and do so safely, without getting into and without causing others to get into an accident?

How does one do what God is calling them to when there is risk, things are moving too fast, and you can not see everthing that is coming?

  1. Experience and preperation - You would not want to be an inexperienced driver or a student driver out on your first day trying to make a turn like this or drive on the freeway(1 Sam 7:3) preperation, practice and experience provide context and often times will help you know when you should move and when you should wait or take a different path to get to the same destination
  2. Wait and be patient - being in a hurry leads to dangerous behavior (Isa 40:31), but being patient while driving and in life is a good idea
  3. Watch and listen - being aware of what's going on by not being distracted and watching and listening for traffic. Being aware of what God is doing by being aware of His leading and what His Word says. Sometimes I have heard something on the radio that sounded like a siren or the noise of a car and it distracted me. Don't make the mistake of hearing or seeing something that is not really there or not hearing or seeing something that is.
  4. Eventually I need to turn (or not) - eventually when driving or in life I need to move or decide that I won't and make sure that I know that once that decision is made it can not be undone, and there might be positive or negative consequences.

What is my point? Through life there might be times when you have to make a decision without a 100% perfect and clear view of where you are going - God has given you experience, senses, skills and His Word to guide you. It is your job to use what He has given to guide you to act within His will or to simply be patient and wait for the right time to act or for Him to show you a different way to get you to where He has called you.



Monday, May 18, 2009

Defending God

I’ve gotten into a bad habit lately of defending God. My obsession with defending Him is almost always in one specific area, and that is His goodness.

What do I mean by that? Let me give you an example- I often hear people say things like “God caused this to happen” or “God did this to me” or “why did God do….?” These statement almost always proceed a statement about some terrible event, deadly disease, or absolute tragedy.

I am more upset when I hear Christians say things that are lifted from the Bible in fragments that are absolutely disconnected from the context of the book they’re in or even the verse they’re in. Here’s an example that I’ve heard more than once “…we know that God causes all things…”. This is a misquoted allusion to Romans 8:28 and somehow is used to imply that when their is good or evil God is the author of it. In fact this verse says “we know that God causes all things to work together for good to them that love God, to them that are called according to His purpose.” Causing things- including tragedies- to work together for good is quite a different thing than causing all things to happen.

Let me give an example, I know a young man in the Central African Republic who lost both parents to AIDS when he was a boy. I don’t for a minute think that God caused the death of his parents. His parents died from a disease – disease was not part of God’s creation but came into the world when Adam fell. AIDS itself is also often contracted through illicit sexual activity or intravenous drug use. Sadly there are many others who contract the disease because of someone else's behaviors and are innocent victims.

As a result of this boy’s parents dying he was raised in a different home by Christians who taught him about the love of God and he eventually became a believer. Today this young man leads a class of children, many of whom have also been orphaned by AIDS.

God was able to use (not cause) this terrible situation and use it for His glory and to build this orphan into a man of God.

So do I need to defend God? No. He is more than able to defend Himself. Yet I will continue to deliver a message (which is itself the very core of my defense) that a dear friend taught me- “God is good all the time, and all the time God is good.”

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Orphans where you live

Though I often speak of the 143 million+ orphans around the world.
This is an interesting look at the problem in of orphans in the US waiting for adoption.

State

Children WaitingFY 2006*

Churches*

Alabama

1,658

9,519

Alaska

722

906

Arizona

2,634

2,863

Arkansas

937

5,843

California

18,028

18,398

Colorado

700

3,310

Connecticut

1,360

2,450

Delaware

302

861

District of Columbia

618

734

Florida

7,478

13,979

Georgia

2,305

12,391

Hawaii

752

835

Idaho

545

1,141

Illinois

3,042

12,081

Indiana

3,343

8,612

Iowa

1,432

4,824

Kansas

2,032

4,398

Kentucky

2,083

6,225

Louisiana

1,079

7,045

Maine

691

1,286

Maryland

1,954

4,860

Massachusetts

2,704

3,333

Michigan

6,164

10,268

Minnesota

1,353

5,447

Mississippi

897

6,893

Missouri

2,714

7,860

Montana

608

1,283

Nebraska

971

2,533

Nevada

1,815

887

New Hampshire

250

887

New Jersey

4,672

5,734

New Mexico

858

1,615

New York

8,040

11,761

North Carolina

3,115

15,731

North Dakota

321

1,270

Ohio

4,011

13,364

Oklahoma

3,587

6,123

Oregon

2,776

3,093

Pennsylvania

3,559

14,435

Rhode Island

397

579

South Carolina

1,750

7,999

South Dakota

507

1,384

Tennessee

1,786

9,877

Texas

12,191

23,726

Utah

475

509

Vermont

251

541

Virginia

1,794

9,371

Washington

2,361

4,437

West Virginia

1,063

2,790

Wisconsin

1,205

5,510

Wyoming

209

702

Total

127,489

302,651